Hey — I'm Merm.
The personal CRM that keeps
relationships warm
I keep a quiet eye on your people and nudge you before any relationship cools off.
Add your contacts, tell me how often you want to stay in touch, and I'll handle the rest.
Free plan includes 3 contacts · No credit card required
Life gets busy. People drift.
You don't mean to lose touch — it just happens. A friend you haven't called in months. A mentor who never hears from you anymore. Merm keeps score so you don't have to think about it.
Everything you need. Nothing you don't.
Warmth scores
Every contact gets a live score. See at a glance who you've been neglecting — Pip's face says it all before you read a word.
Cold contact alerts
Set the rhythm per person — every 7 days for a close friend, every 90 for a distant colleague. Get a nudge when someone's threshold is crossed.
Contact tags & groups
Tag contacts by context — work, college, NYC, hiking. Filter your list instantly to see just the people you want to focus on.
Birthday reminders
Get reminders 7 days before, 3 days before, and on the day. Never send a belated birthday message again.
Interaction timeline
A full history of every call, text, email, and meeting — searchable and filterable. Remember what you talked about last time.
Snooze alerts
Not a good time? Snooze an alert for a week or a month, directly from the email or in the app. You're in control.
Gmail auto-sync
Connect Gmail once and emails are logged automatically as interactions — no manual entry. Your inbox becomes your contact history.
AI message suggestions
Not sure what to say? Get personalised suggestions based on your interaction history, relationship type, and how long it's been since you were last in touch.
Up and running in minutes
Add your people
Add contacts and set how often you want to stay in touch with each one. Close friends every week, old colleagues every few months.
Merm tracks everything
Log interactions manually, or connect Gmail to have emails counted automatically. Merm scores each relationship in real time.
Get nudged before it's too late
A daily email tells you who's going cold. One click takes you straight to their profile so you can reach out.
Simple pricing
Start free. Upgrade when you need more.
Starter
forever
- ✓Up to 4 contacts
- ✓Manual interaction logging
- ✓Weekly cold contact alerts
- ✓Email notifications
Pro
billed annually · £0.83/mo
Launch price — will increase soon
- ✓Unlimited contacts
- ✓Daily cold contact alerts
- ✓Birthday reminders
- ✓Contact tags & groups
- ✓CSV data export
- ✓Gmail auto-sync (coming soon)
- ✓Priority support
Your relationships deserve more than good intentions
Start for free. No credit card. Takes 2 minutes to set up.
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